Okay, I just need to bitch for a minute… And if I strike a cord with you, or piss you off, you know where you can unfollow me!
Why do I, as a woman who has had no fertility problems, have to cover up my excitement if/when I become pregnant, just because you are infertile? I mean, yeah, I empathize with you and everything, but why should my feelings be suppressed because of yours?
Why should I need to “text” you my good news, just so you can be pissed off in private, before “faking” your smile and congrats to me, to my face? What a shitty way to do a “friend.” I cannot help that I had no problems getting pregnant. I just can’t.
If you don’t want to come to my “baby shower”, tell me, so I don’t invite your backstabbing, trifling ass. Really?
I’m trying to be nice over here, people, but some things just really piss me off. With that being said, I respect that you may be hurt because you can’t get pregnant, and I hurt for you. Im sure there is nothing worse than to not be able to do what you were put on this earth to do. I don’t know why God made you that way, and it’s surely not my fault. And don’t expect me to be disrespected by you, because I want to be happy about my pregnancy.
Further more, if you don’t like that I’m pregnant, don’t be my friend. BYE! Don’t need you as a friend anyways.
Disclaimer: 1. I am not currently pregnant. 2. This is not aimed towards anybody in particular, I swear. It was from a blog post I read, talking about proper pregnant girl etiquette towards someone who can’t get pregnant (written by an infertile woman, mind you). You don’t know me. You don’t know what I’ve been through. You can’t steal my happiness.